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Why do women wear obviously sexually-implied/intentioned clothing and then lash out when they receive unwanted attention, labels, and behavior?

Labels can mean “whore,” “slut,” “hoe,” etc.

Behavior can be anything from catcalling to unwanted/unwarranted/inappropriate touching

I’m not saying clothing is a complete and accurate synopsis of one’s personality in all its totality, but it is an indicator of certain insights, interests, and behaviors of a person that someone can reasonably predict. We all make judgements about people all the time from a variety of cues and traits they give off and possess. A person’s clothing does say something about a person and depending on what they’re specifically wearing it can say quite a lot about them without you having to meet or talk them in any significant manner.

For example, a man wearing an all black t-shirt with the swastika/nazi symbol, in red, in the center of the t-shirt says quite a bit about this person without much else. It would be incredibly confusing if you decided to come up to this man and question him on why he’s wearing the t-shirt he’s wearing and he gives you such an answer that is in direct conflict or opposition to what the swastika/nazi symbol means. You find yourself thinking incredibly different about them once you figure out why he’s wearing the t-shirt he’s wearing, but nonetheless caused some confusion.

For the topic at hand, imagine a woman is at a club and she’s wearing very revealing and sexually-implied/intentioned clothing.

To paint a more vivid picture, imagine she has large breasts and what she’s wearing is a very thin, practically see-through bra or top. You can clearly see her nipples, despite being poorly covered up. She’s also wearing very short and tight shorts that look almost like underwear.

What do you think all of this says about this person? Would you be right to think of this woman in certain manners due to her clothing? What would insights on her character be? Do you think she is looking for certain attention?
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LibaaxTheScientist

Waamo-Boy
Wadani
Theyre contrarians they just do the opposite of what men tell them to. Men tell them to wear long skirts and cover and they wanna throw all clothes. My teacher for exmple. She wears tight jeans and all her figure is right in my face when she's writing on the whiteboard....why?? Does she need to accentuate her ass??? Its counter productive to her job as a teacher. Its actually distracting.
 

khad2

Wadani
It has nothing to do with clothes. A man can just lower his gaze and not talk. Simple. Just because a female covers herself doesn’t mean nobody will catcall her. As for her perception due to her clothes depends on the society they live in.

Why do men have the need to tell what women should wear?
 
It has nothing to do with clothes. A man can just lower his gaze and not talk. Simple. Just because a female covers herself doesn’t mean nobody will catcall her. As for her perception due to her clothes depends on the society they live in.

Why do men have the need to tell what women should wear?
Lower your gaze in bar !!!! We are in bar not mosque.
 

LibaaxTheScientist

Waamo-Boy
Wadani
It has nothing to do with clothes. A man can just lower his gaze and not talk. Simple. Just because a female covers herself doesn’t mean nobody will catcall her. As for her perception due to her clothes depends on the society they live in.

Why do men have the need to tell what women should wear?
Same reason god tells women cover their beauty in his word. To not cause zina, and bastards, and children without father figures, and singlemothers and broken homes.
 

khad2

Wadani
A woman regardless of her clothing will receive unwanted attention. Clothes is not going to stop a xoolo from doing what he wants to do. Wether that’s a bikini or a niqab.
 

Bisad

Persian cats = best cat
Wadani
Qaxooti
Women aren’t a 5 star BBQ meal that you can’t resist. Tf nicca it doesn’t matter what she’s wearing stfu and just move on. Are u a xoolo??? Your mothers gave birth to a human being, not an animal incapable of getting past their base instincts.
 

Fayrouz

Typing.........
Wadani
This default cognition of outfit appearance don't apply on women dignity , its the passersby perspective. If a woman dress modestly or revealingly in order, she is a target of other men’s aggression at the end of the day.
 

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